Positive Developments While Dating
An anecdotal way that tells how important you are to someone is whether you are programmed in their phone on a speed dial mechanism. And once, it was also how high you were in the speed dial’s number sequence, but that’s now obsolete with the emergence of voice-activated technology. Nevertheless, there are other ways to tell how important you have become and about positive developments while dating, without violating your date’s privacy.
One indication of positive developments in the date is if you can get information about your date from friends and family. Except for yourself, if you have become very close to your date, family and friends are the next most important people to him or her. Those are the individuals with whom your date will also share personal information and from whom he or she will seek advice. Because family and friends will have known your date for a longer period of time, they will also know routine or basic information about him or her that you may not yet have knowledge of.
Therefore, if you can readily get information about your date from family and friends, it means that they regard you as being in that privileged circle of people who are very close to the individual. That would indicate a very positive development for your dating experience because it would mean that you and your date have progressed into a serious situation.
If you therefore request and can easily get information from your date’s family and friends then it means that you would have met your date’s best friends and family members with whom he or she has a close relationship. This also shows a positive development in your dating because your date has felt comfortable and secure to introduce you to the individuals who are most important to him or her. It means that your date wants you to get to know those people, and also that they should become accustomed to having you around on any occasion in which he will be present.
To maintain a dating relationship and to make it progress, communication is a very important factor. The frequency of calls and other means of contact between your date and yourself will also tell you the extent to which the date is progressing. If you and your date keep in touch, you know each other’s schedules, appointments and other routine matters, then it means that you are aware of what’s going on in your lives. And if you know what’s happening to each other then you also will be able to help each other out, offer support, advice or help as necessary.
Your dating experience will also be in a positive place if your date is thoughtful and engages in various actions to show how he or she is thinking of you. You may receive little gifts or even an offer to do some tasks such as helping you to mow or snow shovel where you live or offering help if you have car problems. Or, if you are male, your female date may even offer to do grocery shopping for you if it’s something you dislike doing.
For a dating experience that is very pleasant and positive, you may also receive special treatment on special occasions such as for birthdays, Valentine’s Day and other holidays. Sending gifts or recognizing special occasions by doing something different is a way of making your date know that he of she is extra special and is also appreciated. Such symbolic recognition will go a long way in deepening the bond and friendship you have with someone who you are dating.